[Seilehogshell]

well, i was able to take everyone's advice and it really helped me to feel compassion for this girl. i've been able to stop the negative feelings. and no sooner than i did that, did she actually get a job. now that she's working, she hasn't been around as much. plus she's encouraging my brother to get a job. after all is said and done, she could actually have been a blessing in disguise. time will tell...

dave