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Old 07-13-2007, 09:11 AM   #6
intendepods

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...there are more and less efficient ways to use this catalyst and it seems to me that the difference is delineated by our perspective, our attitude. to the extent that negative people influence and manipulate us, these are opportunities for learning lessons about ourselves and the creator. this is why ra constantly refer to negative experiences, such as psychic attacks, with expressly benign terms such as "negative greeting" - when viewed as opportunities rather than obstacles or attacks, these experiences are paths to liberation, not subservience, because they point towards what we can do, rather than what is being done to us... thanks for your interest and reply. without reading it felt like a telepathic conversation.

for a long time i considered the "negative elite" as positioned at the top of the pyramid as few and far between, not as found within intimate family life. then i considered the path of a recovering negative working backwards so to speak in a way which may allow for toggling polarization to a positive path which would allow a less limiting evolutionary path. in this case they may be a pre-incarnation choice of circumstance conducive to that: positions that allow for limited power and control share that wean them off their habits.

the idea of orion as symbol of the hunter may suggest basic emotions of fight or flight, a very fundamental instinctual response which is easy to control due to the predictable nature of the response. the hunter as symbol may suggest mechanisms of pursuing, engaging, and overcoming the prey all of which promote emotions of fight or flight in the reptilian brain stem.

as one evolves from my observation, these centers become less influential as higher modes of the mind become active. it may be that the geography of fight or flight is replaced with some alternative brain pattern and so the catalyst offered in regard to living with such tactics may grow to be less influential over time. hence, an opportunity to grow as lemonade from lemons.

another observation seems a bridge to the abstract nature of psychic attack or negative greeting. in many of these somewhat adversarial relationships there can be patterns where a person ruminates with feelings of spite, resentment, worry, anger, and/or ingratitude in response to whatever situation they are in where they don't get their way. these emotions get projected upon others and can be perceived in psychic space as such.
(this is an easy way to psychically attack someone, and an inferior state of being in my opinion.)

there was a recent q'uo sharing that suggested a basic choice: to serve or to withdraw. in some cases the separating nature of withdrawing may act to break such patterns of negative greeting by interrupting them, at the expense of disabling the relationship. in this case, in the vacuum formed from destroying such relationships there may be opportunity to form new, less adversarial relationships which promote growth in other more expanded ways.

a reason for "the veiling" between incarnations may act to promote relationships which would otherwise never happen - where recovering high density negatives can learn from so many low density positives around them who are ignorant of the gravity of their situation and who help toggle a negative's polarity in a positive way, (up to the point where the positive chooses to withdraw, i.e. at a point where their effort to serve becomes futile.)

in my own life in the interactions with negatives, it has been helpful to consider myself disqualified from helping them at some point of diminishing return - to give myself permission to detach and live happier by that choice; (thanks for that.)
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