[intendepods]

...the lessons of love between individual entities here on earth in the here and now are complex are varied ... thanks for your interest and reply.

the "stereotypes" seem to contain some exaggerations of cultural bias which if contemplated may offer an opportunity of conscious contemplation as opposed to subconscious influence.

it may be that one of men's primary fantasy's is simply "access to a beautiful woman as desired without risk of rejection(i.e. a sex object)" and one of women's primary fantasy's is simply "a relationship with a committed man who provides her economic security(i.e. money/power/status object)."

so the contemplation of the stereotypes may involve factors of cultural influence, gender, positive or negative polarity - along with ra's mention that "either fear or desire of possession" as being a fundamental block to progress. it may be that the simple culturally influenced "fantasys" pose a blockage to society's ability to "ascend" because people are chasing each other upon that dead end street.