the "stereotypes" seem to contain some exaggerations of cultural bias which if contemplated may offer an opportunity of conscious contemplation as opposed to subconscious influence. it may be that one of men's primary fantasy's is simply "access to a beautiful woman as desired without risk of rejection(i.e. a sex object)" and one of women's primary fantasy's is simply "a relationship with a committed man who provides her economic security(i.e. money/power/status object)."