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Offhand I'd say if you suspect a Neg, don't communicate with it (i.e., by taunting it). I don't mean ignore its presence, or effects, but in my experience, communicating with Negs can serve as a foothold for them.

The neg has already got a foothold, and communication or non-communication has absolutely no effect. I know because I've tried both approaches.

Have you tried asking yourself, your inner voice, Why am I seeing this? What am I supposed to learn here?

I've asked myself that question numerous times and the only reasonable theory I came up with was the neg is behind these sex "movies" as I explained.

The second question is key. If a Neg is inducing the visions in any way, there isn't any lesson in the visions per se. We can evolve through our interactions with Negs, but Negs don't directly help us grow.

Exactly.

Also, does the man know that you care deeply for him? You might find that there's a shift in your visions if you change your relationship to him. If you think you're attracted to him, and want to have an affair with him, I'm not suggesting you try to have one. I'm just wondering if your feelings for him, because they're not fully expressed maybe, are creating a type of energy bridge between you.

He knows I have feelings for him but at the moment I suspect he's misinterpreted them. So I'm writing a letter to him to set the record straight and hopefully that will help reassure him as well as helping myself to move on. But the "movies" of him having sex stopped as I've explained. I still get occasional glimpses of images of him or the occasional vision of him going about his everyday business, but these are nothing to do with the neg I am sure. I don't mind these "innocent" visions.

Lastly, have you tried changing the pictures or visions? In other words, in the middle of one of these unwanted visions, have you said to yourself, I'd rather focus on this instead... Asserting seniority over your clairvoyance might help too.

Well when I used to see him having sex, I've tried to "pull" away but it was very difficult. It felt like trying to rip myself away from a strong magnet. Other than that, no I just observed without judgement.

One way that Negs work is through artificial synchronicity; that is, they create seemingly synchronistic experiences that we attach undue meaning to, thereby capturing our attention. Obviously you do feel for this man, and have some connection with him, but do you feel it's possible that you've convinced yourself that there's more meaning in the visions than there might be?

I've never attached any meaning to the "movies" of him having sex etc, other than the neg theory. I've wondered if he was in an "open" marriage, or if he was sleeping with other women behind his wife's back, and also if the neg was playing tricks. But I've never attached any meaning to these visions relating to the connection between us.