i am beginning to get frustrated, because this is the only thing getting in my way from having a conciously induced obe. everytime an obe is about to happen, my heart sort of jumps a little in excitement.. then everything fades away. I try very hard to stay relaxed, everything I can imagine to trick my mind to relaxing... but no matter what, I just cant hold it together long enough what is it that you all do? when the obe starts to appear, and the signs start to show.. naturally excitement occurs because it is an intriguing thing, but 100% relaxation is needed.. so is there a technique you use? what is it? or is it just practice?