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Old 12-27-2005, 12:09 AM   #27
Tryphadz

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Personally, the way I see it is

like this.

Guy 1 comes in, he's had a bad day. For whatever reason he's gotten some crappy news and he's in a

bad mood. When he gets to work, everyone can see it. His body language, facial expressions, everything is

different.

Guy 2 is totally the opposite. Good day, good news, excited, happy, confident, etc. Even alittle bit

cocky and is throwing around some witty, playful banter.

It's all about what you project. Now someone mentioned

earlier the type of job they have, and it being incredibly predictable and how women flocked to them as they made

their yearly bonuses and it tapered off later.

You don't really pay attention to that stuff, but i'm willing

to bet their body language changed alot. And so how they projected themselves changed entirely.

I could see that

with your guys yearly bonuses coming, success with women spiking, then as time went on the excitement, extra

confidence, or whatever died down.

I can't say thats what happened, but i'm willing to bet in your average

situation thats the typical of things. And most people don't realize what they're doing with their body/voice

changes alot.

They're focusing on other people/their environment. Not whats inside or what they're

subconciously doing.

Body language and voice tone are by far the most effective ways and the majority of how

humans communicate.

It's not what you say, it's how you say it.

With different, more exilerating emotions

going through your body, the change in mental state...I'm sure it could make a pheremone increase. I don't know if

it compares to a few dabs or drops of synthetics but i'm sure it's there and helps alittle.

But i'd say in

general if you can work on your mental state and thoughts and being secure with them and yourself, and realizing

from time to time feeling bad or insecure about something really stupid is not a good thing. And getting intot he

habbit of speaking with a deeper voice tone and taking a more dominant/leader like role in social situations along

with projecting confidence/dominance through your body language it's going to help alot.

As for mones, i'd say

they can be a big help if your not coming from a place where your inner child is almost always in fetal position. A

few dabs of this and that and alittle something under your nose can "help" change your mental state and "help" you

project something more.

Note I emphasized "help". If anything they're a nice little synthetic supplement.



Also as a side note, I do believe people have some limited power over their bodies people don't normally use.

Power of suggestion is powerful. It's not much different from hypnosis imo.

I read about some guy that

suggested to himself every night when his wife/gf was about to have a baby, or shortly thereafter, that he would and

could produce milk. This was the guy suggesting this to himself. And sure enough he swelled up on 1 of the 2 sides,

and found out men indeed could produce milk and nurse kids.

I also remembered some side note in the article of

some guys embarassingly and unwantingly producing milk to some extent. So aparently men, or atleast some, are

biologically able to produce milk. And that the male nipple is fully functional and able to release it.

To me

that just goes to power of suggestion and being able to effect more than what we realize.

Ryan
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