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Oprah & Controlling Relationships
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03-29-2006, 08:00 AM
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fameintatenly
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well, that\'s why i feel bad...
she\'s very very loyal, she would never do anything as far as cheating, and she never keeps anything under the rug.
i on the other hand am the opposite. maybe i fear karma.
yeah i see what you\'re saying, tho, and i\'ve skimmed a book called \"The Dangerous Passion: Why Jealousy is as necessary as love and sex in a relationship\"
it backs up what you\'re saying, basically
but sometimes it gets out of hand. i didn\'t even want her to talk to friends who i knew and got along with. it\'s a weird relationship. just like everyone elses.
she got jealous of my family members, too!
she and i are sometimes so perfect for each other, and sometimes the worst match in the world
and that status doesn\'t always depend on whether we\'re happy or not - sometimes when we are fighting it\'s clear we are a good match lol
anyway...
i might probably dump her anyway, if i don\'t get dumped first. right now i am not looking for any other relationships. i changed my mind - i want to concentrate on myself. my phrase to describe myself is:
Single in mind, separated in heart, taken in reality.
not looking for relationships, but not denying them either.
35% of the time i am grateful for this girl, 10% i am in complete head over heels (and these aren\'t when we have sex... necessarily)
but i don\'t want to settle for a 10% relationship.
i don\'t think i\'ll ever find the \"love of my life\" in a person. except maybe my mom who i don\'t want to be around, but i still love. although i did tell my parents i don\'t feel like going on a family trip unless my gf comes along with me. and that\'s was just because i believe it won\'t mean much unless debbie comes along. but then sometimes i DON\'T want to be around her... messed up ain\'t it.
anyway thanx watcher.
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