[ReginaPerss]

I just made a post in "Christianity-> Is Christianity about morals?" that tells about a book "Wild at Heart" by John Eldredge. Check it out! I think it will help.

Frist of all, I can't think of anything in the Bible, off hand, that tells about pornography (prostitution? sure, but that's not the same thing)... What I can do for you though is try to explain to you about your husband. Now, I am only a 19 year old College Guy, but when it comes to pornography, THIS IS THE AGE! If one of my friends can't get a girl, he's still looking at them! To have a woman revealed in the ways pornography shows... it really makes a guy feel more manly (it sounds kind of strange, but I really think it does). I find that I, myself, am most likely to look at pornography when I'm feeling depressed I tell you, I don't even need to masterbate (I am ashamed of it, but I need to be honest), simply looking can be enough to lift my spirits and I really do mean spirits! My whole day improves. But then later it drops down even lower because I feel ashamed of my weakness as a guy and wish I could control myself. I haven't looked at pornography for about one and a half months now and I feel like I have almost broken the addiction (That's what it becomes, an addiction), but I know I will never fully break it. Women are just too beautiful, not even a gay man would deny that.

I think you can help your husband by talking to him about it (whatever you do, don't make him feel like your telling him what to do). Show him you love him, remind him that he loves you. turn to God and ask Him to show you what to do in your relationship. Try praying together about it. I know that pornography feels like a weakness, so it will probably be a tender topic for your husband to talk about (most likely if he doesn't think you already know, then he will try to deny it)... I think I may be giving too much advice for who I am... it's probably not my place. I appologise if I went to far here.