They keep saying that they're not but who knows? I really feel for McNair's wife who by all accounts was busy raising their four children and being his wife and who appears to have been completely blindsided by not only his death but the circumstances surrounding it. BTW the deceased woman's sister is saying her sister thought McNair was leaving his wife in a few weeks to be with her.
Doesn't that sound like a cliché in a some miniseries? The whole thing is just crazy.