I can't drink at all and hope to play decent golf. My objective in a Member/Guest is to have fun and make sure my host or guest has a GREAT time. Playing good golf is a big part of enjoying the event but it is not the most important. Host or guest, I want to participate in all the side games and meals and I try to pay for as much of my partner's participation as I can. Practice the same as you would for any other event; don't put more pressure on yourself by changing your routine. And don't apologize for bad shots; everyone is doing their best. Did I mention HAVE FUN