Ok, you lost 9 lbs plus your gorge weight (you have to count that too) in 3 weeks. If you gained 3lbs loading, thats 12 lbs in 21 days...that's over a half pound per day avg, which is normal for a woman. Also, most folks have a stall after the first 10 to 12 lbs...sounds like you just hit it. Everything looks normal to me. You will start losing again any day. I say keep on going if you can.