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I certainly am one that you all well know makes appearances from time to time for a few days and the disappears for months at a time. That does not mean I am not looking. I look upon the site here at least once a week. I think many times for me just like going to an AA meeting when I really need it, it sometimes is just better for me if I look at what others have to say in response to a poster. The advice al the senior posters give for the most part is good and it would sometimes make it seem less genuine if all of us responded to a post and parroted each other. You notice alot of the other sites have that problem.

I think when I do post a reply these days its only when I think I need to or really see something that may apply to me. even decades later I still have those days when I go back and wonder how the hell it all went down like it did. I can lurk here and always remember as much as I sometimes wish I was, that my situation, nor I, am truly unique at all.