[panholio]

Oh sweetie don't wait, then you give him power. You never know how long your life is and you don't want to waist it waiting on him. I was with my guy for almost 13 years when I found out. He moved in with her, had a kid with her, and then when they broke up he came back, after 2 years of being away. I took him back and he has just left again for her. Don't waste away years like I did. I know its hard to leave or even think about being apart from him after being with him so long, but you can and have to do it! You have to take the next step and quit him like cold turkey. It will be hard for awhile and it will hurt, but in time you will have your own life back. Stay strong, and leave. The blame game is just the start.....Big Hugs!