[tinamasak]

Interesting post. I can totally relate to what stunned has said. I'm still with CW. I hate her for what she did. Totally indefensible. I have my own issues as to why I'm still there too. Completely for my children.

Stunned, I get the remorse from my CW too, but I believe her to be very hollow about it. She is so nice until the heats on, then the remorse suddenly dissappears & she fights so aggressively. I think if your CH isn't being completely open with you, then you have to be question the remorse, IMO. My CW puts on a great act. But it's all BS.

Muff & Survived: I agree with you both. You tell it like it is & that's good. I probably fit into the "too nice & tolerant" category. I'm still with my CW for my reasons as I said before (my 2 boys & the age of youngest etc). But thats my way. But I would never defend her. What she did was disgusting. My view will never change from that. I guess I just tolerate her for now.