That's the thinking with neo-cons isn't it? That it's all a choice. That what's keeping everyone from jumping out of the closet right this instant is a law favoring same-sex marriages. Think about how screwed up your logic is that that's how you think about that. I'm sorry, but you can't "ungay" yourself. You can be gay and engage in heterosexual acts, but you're still gay unless that's something you do frequently? Right? Oh, God! I think Haggard should be able to fuck whoever he wants to in the first place...I'm a progressive and frankly I don't care what people do to each other when I'm not looking. Hell, I even believe you can be gay and believe in fairy tales, so Mr.Haggard, there you go, I've set you free. By the way, he's soooooo gay!