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**bertanu** · 02-25-2012, 04:39 PM

i can respect that. i think it's pretty wierd too.

i had a coworker years ago that lost a 2 yr/old to a battle with heart disease or something to that effect. she then brought pictures of her and her family (husband and other small children) holding and posing with the child's body before they buried him. honestly, they were pretty tasteful (other than the fact that the child was dead) photos. nothing disrecpectful. Another friend lost his wife and young child in a terrible car accident. he was allowed to have them buried in his backyard..... yes, wierd. but i can't possibly imagine what i would do or what it would be like if i lost a child....

What state was that ? I know a man that did that & state came & took him to court & made them exhume & move him to a cemetery. It was re-living the nighmare all over again.

I can kind of relate here. A few years ago my older brother died suddenly of a heart attack. When I went to the funereal home I completely lost it and went seriously, horrifically berzerk because I wanted to take him home with me. Eventually I calmed down, but had they allowed me to I would have taken him with me.

I hear ya. Unbearable. To this day I remember the horrific death of mine & the double funeral that followed. (his friend died with him)
I couldn't lose it, tho, i had to be strong for my mother who kept trying to wake him up.

02-25-2012, 04:39 PM	#15
bertanu Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 403 Senior Member	i can respect that. i think it's pretty wierd too. i had a coworker years ago that lost a 2 yr/old to a battle with heart disease or something to that effect. she then brought pictures of her and her family (husband and other small children) holding and posing with the child's body before they buried him. honestly, they were pretty tasteful (other than the fact that the child was dead) photos. nothing disrecpectful. Another friend lost his wife and young child in a terrible car accident. he was allowed to have them buried in his backyard..... yes, wierd. but i can't possibly imagine what i would do or what it would be like if i lost a child.... What state was that ? I know a man that did that & state came & took him to court & made them exhume & move him to a cemetery. It was re-living the nighmare all over again. I can kind of relate here. A few years ago my older brother died suddenly of a heart attack. When I went to the funereal home I completely lost it and went seriously, horrifically berzerk because I wanted to take him home with me. Eventually I calmed down, but had they allowed me to I would have taken him with me. I hear ya. Unbearable. To this day I remember the horrific death of mine & the double funeral that followed. (his friend died with him) I couldn't lose it, tho, i had to be strong for my mother who kept trying to wake him up.
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