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**craditc** · 05-06-2010, 07:10 PM

Hi Mystery - I'm glad to hear that you are no longer taking responsiblity for someone elses actions. That is a step in the right direction. It's also great to know you are trying to initiate a new pattern of interaction between you and your spouse -- a healthier one. Good for you. In this regard, I want to caution you: do be certain you are not in the beginning stage of a cycle of game playing and one ups-manship. It will get you no where. And I"m really not suggesting you ARE entering into that cycle...I've just seen it happen before and I want to make sure you don't go down that road.

KitKat

05-06-2010, 07:10 PM	#3
craditc Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 524 Senior Member	Hi Mystery - I'm glad to hear that you are no longer taking responsiblity for someone elses actions. That is a step in the right direction. It's also great to know you are trying to initiate a new pattern of interaction between you and your spouse -- a healthier one. Good for you. In this regard, I want to caution you: do be certain you are not in the beginning stage of a cycle of game playing and one ups-manship. It will get you no where. And I"m really not suggesting you ARE entering into that cycle...I've just seen it happen before and I want to make sure you don't go down that road. KitKat
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