[PilotJargon]

i think people can change if they really truly want too, but with anything they have to first realize that there is a problem, but for the most part at least in my situation my husband twists so many stories to try and make them fit he's in denial probably more than i am, it's really pretty sick now that i think of it i swear it's as if he has washed faults away and don't remember or perhaps he cares not, obviously he feels better spinning a web of lies praying and hoping that i believe his b.s stories so we can continue to live in this fantasy world where he is the ideal husband and father and he should know that fairy tales are only for entertainment purposes, but like someone said above sometimes it takes for a person to hit rock bottom to want to change and in his case that's what its gonna take,