[RayFairhurst]

Honey, you do have blinders on. This is not normal or healthy for you or him. He is using a pretty lame excuse in my estimation about him having sex with another woman. What do you think he and the other woman are saying about you behind your back? Do you think they are saying how kind you are to allow him to protect his child? Or do you think they are laughing because you are buying his crap?

Love isn't what this guy is giving you. He has exposed you to std's and you appear okay with it. If you came here for support for staying in a situation that is going to end badly for you, you are in the wrong place. But a word of advice. All the sites out, I don't know one, even loveshack, that will tell you to stay. It is not only wrong it is spiritually, emotionally, mentally and physically damaging. I am a mother of a 23 year old and a 17 year old, there is no way in hell I would support that.....for anyone.

The things you said others said about you is really the way you view yourself. Because no one said those things. We don't' need your biography to know that this is wrong on every level. We wish you luck in finding someone who will tell you this is okay.