[BashBeissedat]

I haven't cheated on my wife, I'm not that kind of guy. So I have a hard time saying if weight would make me cheat or attitude, because I just don't see me doing that. My sense of right and wrong kicks in and I make the right choice.

That being said, my wife put on 40 pounds since we were married. I still find her very attractive and I think she is a damn sexy woman. She has always had low self-esteem, and with the extra weight she has been down on herself. Her attitude is rather annoying. I know a ton of women that would kill to look like her. When ever says something about loosing weight, she says how fat she is and they give her a look like she's crazy and in some cases go off on her.

Her attitude about it is what drives me crazy. She wants to loose weight, but won't do anything to do it. She just likes to complain about "being fat".

I'd never cheat. I'll leave first. If someone says that is why they cheated, it's because they are immoral and unethical. They don't truly love their partner and they are just using it as an excuse.