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**lmHVYs8e** · 10-19-2009, 10:58 PM

My husband and I are working things out after his emotional affair.

The other woman was prettier than me in my case, but my husband has seen her for who she truly was; a very ugly person on the inside. A manipulator and user of people to satisfy whatever need she may have at the time.

Point is; my husband saw her for who she was, saw me for who I was. I was slightly overweight. But, together, my husband and I are both working on our health and our figures. Our esteem and confidence as well.

It doesn't matter what the other woman looks like, what matters is what you and your husband are doing right now. Are you working things out? Are things better or worse? Are you slowly coming to terms with what has happened? Are you in counseling together, for yourself?

10-19-2009, 10:58 PM	#2
lmHVYs8e Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 392 Senior Member	My husband and I are working things out after his emotional affair. The other woman was prettier than me in my case, but my husband has seen her for who she truly was; a very ugly person on the inside. A manipulator and user of people to satisfy whatever need she may have at the time. Point is; my husband saw her for who she was, saw me for who I was. I was slightly overweight. But, together, my husband and I are both working on our health and our figures. Our esteem and confidence as well. It doesn't matter what the other woman looks like, what matters is what you and your husband are doing right now. Are you working things out? Are things better or worse? Are you slowly coming to terms with what has happened? Are you in counseling together, for yourself?
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