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**Zdfjpbth** · 10-20-2009, 03:04 PM

jenn,
in my case I feel my xWife traded down....in looks, body, with her it was a matter of it wouldn't have mattered if I was Brad Pitt....the fact that I'm the same guy she has been with for too long, she just wanted new faces to f##k.

hell, her new man has even hit her. but he is a bad boy and has her wrapped around her little finger. sucks to be her.

but if you feel the OW is better looking, that could be just your perception. I wouldn't let it get to you. And if she is very attractive, you think she would want to stay faithful to your husband if she wound up with him and a few years have passed?

People who are highly attractive don't have a real good track record of being faithful....they tend to think they should share themselves with as many people as they can and do them a favor (i.e. conceit and narcissism)
although I think I am attractive, but have never cheated and certainly don't hold that view for myself.

So maybe your H is just digging his own hole.

10-20-2009, 03:04 PM	#6
Zdfjpbth Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 596 Senior Member	jenn, in my case I feel my xWife traded down....in looks, body, with her it was a matter of it wouldn't have mattered if I was Brad Pitt....the fact that I'm the same guy she has been with for too long, she just wanted new faces to f##k. hell, her new man has even hit her. but he is a bad boy and has her wrapped around her little finger. sucks to be her. but if you feel the OW is better looking, that could be just your perception. I wouldn't let it get to you. And if she is very attractive, you think she would want to stay faithful to your husband if she wound up with him and a few years have passed? People who are highly attractive don't have a real good track record of being faithful....they tend to think they should share themselves with as many people as they can and do them a favor (i.e. conceit and narcissism) although I think I am attractive, but have never cheated and certainly don't hold that view for myself. So maybe your H is just digging his own hole.
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