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Why does her husband want to hurt the boyfriend? I've seen it over and over, and even read it here. If the woman cheats, it seems the first reaction is to want to hurt the other man? Why? She is the one who took vows with her husband. The other man never promised the husband anything. But the husband usually acts like the other man somehow betrayed him. I have seen husbands be much, much angrier, seemingly, with the boyfriend than with his wife. As a woman, this just does not make sense to me. Can anyone explain?