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**RooxiaNof** · 09-18-2009, 03:21 PM

Ya, it's strange behavior. He is trying to get too close, looking too much at you....he may have developed feelings for you, but as a pastor, he should know better.

I would keep your distance and if he asks, just be honest and tell him, "Sorry, but you are making me uncomfortable." You can't help your feelings, and that is the truth. He needs to back off, and stop getting so close.

I realize this church and the church members/community are a big part of your life, but you should probably branch into other areas of interest aswell....I don't want to say find a new church, but if it continues, you will eventually have to.

I hope it works out for you.

09-18-2009, 03:21 PM	#5
RooxiaNof Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 552 Senior Member	Ya, it's strange behavior. He is trying to get too close, looking too much at you....he may have developed feelings for you, but as a pastor, he should know better. I would keep your distance and if he asks, just be honest and tell him, "Sorry, but you are making me uncomfortable." You can't help your feelings, and that is the truth. He needs to back off, and stop getting so close. I realize this church and the church members/community are a big part of your life, but you should probably branch into other areas of interest aswell....I don't want to say find a new church, but if it continues, you will eventually have to. I hope it works out for you.
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