[boiffrona]

Sweetheart I think you've made the right choice. It's not an easy one... but its the right one.

It's OK for you to help him through therapy, but make sure you don't get further involved.

Your divorce attorney will advise you to stay in the marital home. Just make sure you kick him out of it. You don't want to be around the constant reminder of your hurt, pain and betrayal -- I'm telling you this for your own sanity's sake.

If you want revenge on him... the best revenge is to go out and get a life. Be happy... and make sure he knows it. It will drive him NUTS for years to come... knowing he was not enough to satisfy you.

Do a search on some of my posts... they are harsh... but you will get a few tips on handling the divorce. Some of them are wicked tips...

And keep on posting here. I see StillInShock and Old_Shoes haven't popped in yet. They also have good advice and are gentler than I am.

Good luck!

- R