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Its real simple. Take it from someone who wishes he would have had the knowledge of his current spouses cheating when it was needed.

If you are not married, even if you are engaged, and you find your partner has cheated on you....END IT IMMEDIATELY. Trust me on this.
I don't care if all your partner did was kiss the other person. That person is not the marrying type. If they cheat on you before marriage, what do you think will happen when the 7 year itch comes along?

And don't listen to the people that will try to tell you its your fault your partner cheated. Its the cheaters problem, not yours.

And don't make the cheaters problem your problem til death do you part.

Take if from someone who knows, you don't need that kind of crap in your life.
And if you ARE married and don't have any kids yet, get that lie of a marriage anulled quick.

I know most of you think that you will not survive without the person you claim to love and thought loved you. But if they cheated, its just the plain truth no matter what a cheater says.....they didn't love you...at least not enough to not bang another person.

Don't give a cheater a 2nd chance and end it....keep your dignity and find someone who will love you.

Muff