I think her ears are just fine. I guess everyone has an opinion and your neighbor expressed theirs. Its your opinion that matters,though. Tyson sure is a cutie with those bat ears! I lol'd. Thats amazing since the coffee hasn't kicked in yet. Since Athena is still a pup I wouldn't worry too much about her having a couple extra pounds. How long/far do you walk her in a day? Since you mentioned a leg problem I would be a bit cautious about working her too hard unless the vet says its ok. But nice brisk walks are a gentle way to exercise.