[Aztegjpl]

I guess it really all comes down to you and your priorities. The only person that can make that decision is you. For me, my wife is wonderful and we have a open and honest relationship and if I am doing something that bothers her, she let's me know and we compromise. If you honestly feel that cutting back on some golf and spending more time with her will make you resent her, then there is only one thing you can do. There is nothing worse than resentment because it doesn't get better, it just keeps getting worse and worse. Is there no compromise you are willing to make with her?