I would vote for this if it's doable. All in all, you and JB need to make sure that you as a couple come first regardless of how much you love THP and its members. You guys as a couple came first and everything else follows (good and bad). No matter what you guys decide, I'm sure many in the Paradise will support your decision. That being said, if you think that extra staff (voluntary or 'paid) is needed that may be the route to go so it doesn't put everything on your shoulders.