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**Xzmwskxn** · 06-29-2010, 12:36 AM

Lmfao! God I love this forum, mad onions ftw.

Guys and girls thanks for the advice, I'm really appreciative that everyone is mostly on the same page. I'll give a little update to the situation-

So after date #1 went well, we setup a second date for this week. I really liked her and I'm glad I get another chance to see how it goes.

Well, girl #2 kept texting, she seemed excited for our date so we ended up bumping it up and going out on Saturday night. We also had a pretty good time although I'd say overall I was less interested in her than she was in me and more interested in girl 1 (who seems to have a bit more mystery to her). Regardless though, I had fun, so girl #2 and I are going out again this week for more of a formal date since we just ended up drinking and talking at the bar till 2am.

So now I've got the two dates next week and a third AND a fourth girl who are both very interested in one

. I think I'll probably stick to the advice and just take it as it comes and when I feel settled in then let the other brizzles know whats up. My online profile already explains that I got off a big relationship, so the girls know where I'm at, and girl #2 knows I've gone out with girl #1 (like you guys said, everyone's in the same boat on a dating site). Right now I'm just enjoying getting to go on those first nervous, exciting dates again that I had so many years back. I don't know if others agree, but I know for me the first year or two of a relationship is a blast, you get to have so much fun getting to know the other person and taking it to the next level every week.

For those of you thinking of trying those sites, I guess at this point so far I'd have to recommend it. I have a friend who had been doing it for over a year, and he's had little success (although plenty of dates), but I think part of it was that he didn't put up the greatest profile pictures and he takes things way too seriously. I'm a laid back guy and I like good conversation and laughter. If you are argumentative I think that hurts your chances quite a bit. It also helps to have a big relationship under your belt because I know how to talk to women and have lived with one so I can bank on those experiences.

Now there's just that question of if I can squeeze in girls #3 and 4 without overlap. . . (hopefully girl #1 will just stand out by the end of the week)

06-29-2010, 12:36 AM	#16
Xzmwskxn Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 478 Senior Member	Lmfao! God I love this forum, mad onions ftw. Guys and girls thanks for the advice, I'm really appreciative that everyone is mostly on the same page. I'll give a little update to the situation- So after date #1 went well, we setup a second date for this week. I really liked her and I'm glad I get another chance to see how it goes. Well, girl #2 kept texting, she seemed excited for our date so we ended up bumping it up and going out on Saturday night. We also had a pretty good time although I'd say overall I was less interested in her than she was in me and more interested in girl 1 (who seems to have a bit more mystery to her). Regardless though, I had fun, so girl #2 and I are going out again this week for more of a formal date since we just ended up drinking and talking at the bar till 2am. So now I've got the two dates next week and a third AND a fourth girl who are both very interested in one . I think I'll probably stick to the advice and just take it as it comes and when I feel settled in then let the other brizzles know whats up. My online profile already explains that I got off a big relationship, so the girls know where I'm at, and girl #2 knows I've gone out with girl #1 (like you guys said, everyone's in the same boat on a dating site). Right now I'm just enjoying getting to go on those first nervous, exciting dates again that I had so many years back. I don't know if others agree, but I know for me the first year or two of a relationship is a blast, you get to have so much fun getting to know the other person and taking it to the next level every week. For those of you thinking of trying those sites, I guess at this point so far I'd have to recommend it. I have a friend who had been doing it for over a year, and he's had little success (although plenty of dates), but I think part of it was that he didn't put up the greatest profile pictures and he takes things way too seriously. I'm a laid back guy and I like good conversation and laughter. If you are argumentative I think that hurts your chances quite a bit. It also helps to have a big relationship under your belt because I know how to talk to women and have lived with one so I can bank on those experiences. Now there's just that question of if I can squeeze in girls #3 and 4 without overlap. . . (hopefully girl #1 will just stand out by the end of the week)
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