[Guaranano]

That's what you get for being born with a penis. My friend is going through a divorce. His wife has 3 kids, 2 of them are his, the other was with some loser who pays no child support.

When they figured up his child support they hit him with 3 kids, rather than 2. So yeah.. he's paying for a kid that's not even his.

Plus the wife said he never sees his kids so they took that into account, even though he has his kids quite often since she ditches them off every time she wants to go out. She blew all the money on manicures and crap and had the balls to hit him up for money so she could fill her gas tank to go see some dude.

I feel for ya man. The courts are never fair to men. Kids need a father in their life.

1.) If you get a girlfriend, keep your kids first. When my dad got one, I rarely went over to his house as often cause they were "hanging out." Also that. I'm a ******* child, used to hang out with my mom when she was actually home (3rd shift factor). At 12 she dated some dude, forgot I existed, and while we were staying at his place on a school night (1 hour drive) my grandfather (my only father figure) died and we didn't even go back that night. You can **** a kid up big time by replacing them like that. I went from straight A's to D's over night. Never did quite recover.

2.) Don't do a "suprise, we are getting married" bs. My wife's dad pulled that stunt, with a twist. They didn't find out until a year later that the girlfriend they all hated was their step mother. And they found out because she got smashed, popped pills, and asked the youngest child if she wanted to know a secret.

So yeah, there's examples on what NOT to do as a parent. :P But I'm sure you know what to do with kids, more experience than me for sure. Best of luck man. I've seen so many screwed up relationships, the legal side of things, and the kids get screwed. But all the pro's say it's best to just get divorced than stay together for the kids' sake.