I'm voting for your sis but... I can't really understand why weddings are done sooooooooooooooooo over the top in US. We had AMAZING wedding. We had band (with best male vocalist I've heard live.), food, big multilayered cake, "wedding-drink" etc. And it cost about 2000-3000€'s (including our clothes.) "Normal" wedding in US costs at least 10.000$. At least that's what I've read. [surrender]