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**ThzinChang** · 08-20-2009, 02:35 AM

i think you escalated the situation a little quick. maybe he forgot, or comes home loaded, it's pretty easy not to think about it then. honestly, I feel sorry for a lot of my neighbors when i was in college and soon after.

Anyways, not sure how old they are or if they go to the pub everynight, but if this is the case, they may just be shitfaced, and not think about it. If you keep asking nicely and they keep doing it though, maybe he's just a prick. I would tread lightly untill I know the guys a ******** and doing it on purpose, and then if he is, I'm 100% with you. Kick his fecking door in if you have to.

I don't like inconsiderate people either. I would have talked to them a couple of more times and nicely asked them not to slam it. After 3 or 4 times being polite and aksing them though, if it kept going on.....I would proceed exactly like you have. I do think you maybe escalated it a little quick.

anyways, i'm mostly sympathetic with you. I try to be the nicest guy in the world untill someone like that comes along and refuses to be considerate. After that, all bets are off.

also, just thought i'd add, apartments suck! I hated living right on top of other people. At first opportunity, buy or rent your own house, you'll be glad you did. I like being able to crank 7.1 sound for games, music, movies, whenever I want. More importantly, I like a little bit of privacy. When i come home after a long day, or leave the house half a sleep at 6 am, I don't like having to see or hear a half a dozen people before i get into the car or in the house. Don't get me wrong, I'm friendly with everyone, but sometimes I just don't like neighbors watching my every move. I've got this older couple that live across the street though, that are constantly sitting in their front yard. Everytime I walk out my front door they're staring me right in the face. Hard to explain, but it's a little annoying. Nice people though.

That pales in comparison though, to lying in bed at night and hearing people stomp on the ceiling or hearing people come home at all hours of the night.

08-20-2009, 02:35 AM	#16
ThzinChang Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 508 Senior Member	i think you escalated the situation a little quick. maybe he forgot, or comes home loaded, it's pretty easy not to think about it then. honestly, I feel sorry for a lot of my neighbors when i was in college and soon after. Anyways, not sure how old they are or if they go to the pub everynight, but if this is the case, they may just be shitfaced, and not think about it. If you keep asking nicely and they keep doing it though, maybe he's just a prick. I would tread lightly untill I know the guys a ******** and doing it on purpose, and then if he is, I'm 100% with you. Kick his fecking door in if you have to. I don't like inconsiderate people either. I would have talked to them a couple of more times and nicely asked them not to slam it. After 3 or 4 times being polite and aksing them though, if it kept going on.....I would proceed exactly like you have. I do think you maybe escalated it a little quick. anyways, i'm mostly sympathetic with you. I try to be the nicest guy in the world untill someone like that comes along and refuses to be considerate. After that, all bets are off. also, just thought i'd add, apartments suck! I hated living right on top of other people. At first opportunity, buy or rent your own house, you'll be glad you did. I like being able to crank 7.1 sound for games, music, movies, whenever I want. More importantly, I like a little bit of privacy. When i come home after a long day, or leave the house half a sleep at 6 am, I don't like having to see or hear a half a dozen people before i get into the car or in the house. Don't get me wrong, I'm friendly with everyone, but sometimes I just don't like neighbors watching my every move. I've got this older couple that live across the street though, that are constantly sitting in their front yard. Everytime I walk out my front door they're staring me right in the face. Hard to explain, but it's a little annoying. Nice people though. That pales in comparison though, to lying in bed at night and hearing people stomp on the ceiling or hearing people come home at all hours of the night.
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