So you didnt realise that what she was infact trying to tell you is that she had some **** whilst she was away and no longer wants anything to do with you. yet you kept phoning her and didnt take heed even after she threatened you with a restraining order ? when women get like that you just drop them. and leave well alone. hmmm thats a little harse im sorry. I take the comment back but you should have left well alone after she said that