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**Nafheense** · 03-29-2012, 06:37 PM

Any specific sort of advice you need?

Biggest advice I can think of at the moment is that just as you don't consider yourself perfect, don't expect your spouse to be perfect. And certainly don't think that you will be in agreement on every matter.

edit: some articles

http://daruliftaa.net/General-Islamic/sparklove.html

http://darulfiqh.com/?p=2151

http://darulfiqh.com/?p=2130

Jazakallah for that.

Any specific sort of advice you need? Thing is that i am the first to get married in my family as well as my outer family so i dont have no one to ask for advise. In general I am looking for any type of advise to do with the subject. But some subjects may include:
Fiqh of marraige
Major pitfalls to be aware of beforehand
How to keep the marraige going the right way
How to keep the family a pious and religous one (obviously first myself then the wife and any kids Allah (swt) blesses me with)
I also want to learn about womens issues such as haidh ect. (some may think why do you need to know that but i have heard it to be important)
you can add anything i may have missed
maybe i am just worrying too much.

03-29-2012, 06:37 PM	#19
Nafheense Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 517 Senior Member	Any specific sort of advice you need? Biggest advice I can think of at the moment is that just as you don't consider yourself perfect, don't expect your spouse to be perfect. And certainly don't think that you will be in agreement on every matter. edit: some articles http://daruliftaa.net/General-Islamic/sparklove.html http://darulfiqh.com/?p=2151 http://darulfiqh.com/?p=2130 Jazakallah for that. Any specific sort of advice you need? Thing is that i am the first to get married in my family as well as my outer family so i dont have no one to ask for advise. In general I am looking for any type of advise to do with the subject. But some subjects may include: Fiqh of marraige Major pitfalls to be aware of beforehand How to keep the marraige going the right way How to keep the family a pious and religous one (obviously first myself then the wife and any kids Allah (swt) blesses me with) I also want to learn about womens issues such as haidh ect. (some may think why do you need to know that but i have heard it to be important) you can add anything i may have missed maybe i am just worrying too much.
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