I can never find proofs for this, if I have been blessed with wealth and i pay zakah and fulfil my fard. But i want to spend my money on buying designer handbags lavish holidays spednign thousands etc.. i wonder is there any such ruling on how you define what is lavish or extraveagent.. i know we will be asked how we spent our wealth on the Day or judgement. I like to go to dubai with the family however its costs £5,000 for 1 week break I can afford it but is it haram?