No one talked about "neccessity". Its about permissibility. The hadiths are enough evidence. I can't help your literalist appraoch of expecting a statement "women are allowed to play so and so in so and so place at sso and so time". No proofs are obtained tht way. A general eevidence is enough and it is onus upon you to come and provide evidence for your prohibitions. No one gave you the right to declare something haraam, as far as i know. And even in the principle of bidah, everyone across the sectarian board admits that in matters not related to worship, everything is permissible until proven forbidden. If there is any onus existing its about you for your holier than thou appraoch expecting all Muslims to be ascetic saints and for declaring things as haram by your personal desire.