Maybe, and you are welcome to ask, am i welcome to ask too - Plus i think this is a more famous well known transmission ? Maybe i am wrong ? Again im not asking about rights of a father to be obeyed, that is assumed. Also the defintion of father MUST be a good father, it cant be a bad father, who takes you from Islam. So im assuming both men and women are good in this context, and those men and women that beleive in this hadith, that "paradise lies at the feet of the mother"?