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**poRmawayncmop** · 06-15-2012, 04:37 AM

Thank you for your replies, I have now handed back to my husband the responsibility of his money, I have asked him to transfer the bills money to make account only where all the direct debit come out of, thats it.

Before I use to save his left over salary every month for rainy days and deposit for our house, he knew that and had full access to the saving account for him to see. His constant questioning of where his money is gone has started to kill me from inside. I dont know if this was the right decision as previously when he took over our saving he ended up blowing a lot out of the saving but either way I think for my sanity thats the best.

Please excuse me for asking advice from outsiders, I had no1 to turn to and I was going crazy alone

You are not alone and you are part of a family of 1.5+ billion Muslims so don't worry and no need to excuse yourself. Would you be Sorry in discussing this with your brothers & sisters? Thats what we are so don't worry.

You do need to stay in touch with others on a regular basis as posting on a forum has given you some relief but the matter needs to be handled on a firmer footing and in a better manner so please consider Sister UmmiTalib's advice as she appears to be knowledgeable and experienced person.

You need to be in touch with some practising and good Muslim Sisters and Allah (SWT) has brought you to the right place.

06-15-2012, 04:37 AM	#8
poRmawayncmop Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 664 Senior Member	Thank you for your replies, I have now handed back to my husband the responsibility of his money, I have asked him to transfer the bills money to make account only where all the direct debit come out of, thats it. Before I use to save his left over salary every month for rainy days and deposit for our house, he knew that and had full access to the saving account for him to see. His constant questioning of where his money is gone has started to kill me from inside. I dont know if this was the right decision as previously when he took over our saving he ended up blowing a lot out of the saving but either way I think for my sanity thats the best. Please excuse me for asking advice from outsiders, I had no1 to turn to and I was going crazy alone You are not alone and you are part of a family of 1.5+ billion Muslims so don't worry and no need to excuse yourself. Would you be Sorry in discussing this with your brothers & sisters? Thats what we are so don't worry. You do need to stay in touch with others on a regular basis as posting on a forum has given you some relief but the matter needs to be handled on a firmer footing and in a better manner so please consider Sister UmmiTalib's advice as she appears to be knowledgeable and experienced person. You need to be in touch with some practising and good Muslim Sisters and Allah (SWT) has brought you to the right place.
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