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Yes, but people can change it is possible that her husband could change for the better with the right education and understanding, being young, angry and an idealist does not always serve the greater good. Things are not always ideal, sometimes we have to work at acheiving the ideal though wisdom, maturity and patience. And being too nice to wives can backfire as well.

I said IF the situation is as the sister said.

But brothers in this day and age are not giving sisters the rights which Allah SWT have given them so they dont deserve to have family unless they treat them properly.

Whats the difference between us and kuffar?

We shoudl be so sweet to our wives and daughters than the non muslims are queing up to take shahada upon seeing our excellent conduct, instead we regularly feature in the news and the disbelievers shake their heads at our pathetic behaviour. Allahu musta'aan