Agreed. Relationship with a Shaykh is beneficial for some people but its not “THE WAY” or “THE ONLY WAY” and those well versed in Tassawuff never claim this, they just say its “ONE OF THE EASIEST WAYS FOR MOST PEOPLE (in their opinion) ”. Allah (SWT) has created all of us differently with different natures and we all react to different mechanisms differently. The point is to reform ourselves, realise our short comings act on the Sunnah and Deen and utilise whatever is of benefit to in the most effective manner. Cyber (online time) and listening to talks (in cars or ipods or MP3) can NEVER replace physical company of the pious. And as long people find the time to spend time in the company of those whom Allah (SWT) has blessed with the opportunity to follow the Sunnah and make Mushwara with them (about their affairs) that’s fine; if a person doesn't have oppurtunity for physical company then online is a fallback method but not the first and primary method.