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**VomsVomaMew** · 06-13-2012, 07:23 PM

according to Shafi madhab, a father can force her daughter to merry the man he choses for her. Honestly I just can't understand how come this is possible, but I found out it is, at least I've been told so!

by the way, I have a question, is neccessary to have wali's persmission? for example I am a hanafi and if I wanted to merry someone but my parents forbid me with no valid reasons, can I merry withouth their permission? is their permission neccessary even in this case? what's the opinion of hanafi madhab about this?

Allahu a'lam what the hanafi madhab says, but I know that the prophet SAW forbade forced marriages on more than one occasion, if the shaafi madhab really does say that, then the shaafi madhab is wrong. wallahu a'lam. Id need to see references first though before I accept taht the shaafi madhab says this.

And if a man is rejected based on any reason by the wali, EXCEPT deen or character, huge fitnah and oppression will be in the land. Many imaams will marry you if you have a good religious guy who gets rejected on basis on some stupid reason e.g. caste or tribe or ethnicity.

Also its waajib to get married if you fear you will commit haraam so you wont need your parents permission as there is no obeying the creation over the creator so westernised muslim parents who force their kids to not marry till their twenties or thirties, due to studies, mortgages etc, this applies to them. Allahu a'lam

where did you hear taht concerning forced marriages?

06-13-2012, 07:23 PM	#7
VomsVomaMew Join Date Nov 2005 Posts 470 Senior Member	according to Shafi madhab, a father can force her daughter to merry the man he choses for her. Honestly I just can't understand how come this is possible, but I found out it is, at least I've been told so! by the way, I have a question, is neccessary to have wali's persmission? for example I am a hanafi and if I wanted to merry someone but my parents forbid me with no valid reasons, can I merry withouth their permission? is their permission neccessary even in this case? what's the opinion of hanafi madhab about this? Allahu a'lam what the hanafi madhab says, but I know that the prophet SAW forbade forced marriages on more than one occasion, if the shaafi madhab really does say that, then the shaafi madhab is wrong. wallahu a'lam. Id need to see references first though before I accept taht the shaafi madhab says this. And if a man is rejected based on any reason by the wali, EXCEPT deen or character, huge fitnah and oppression will be in the land. Many imaams will marry you if you have a good religious guy who gets rejected on basis on some stupid reason e.g. caste or tribe or ethnicity. Also its waajib to get married if you fear you will commit haraam so you wont need your parents permission as there is no obeying the creation over the creator so westernised muslim parents who force their kids to not marry till their twenties or thirties, due to studies, mortgages etc, this applies to them. Allahu a'lam where did you hear taht concerning forced marriages?
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