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**UpperMan** · 01-16-2006, 04:09 PM

It just sad to see people being onesided and yet don't look at their own personal stance as well, I hope everyone can keep a balanced view on others.

Why does everyone asume that everone else has problems?

"doesn't look at thier own personal stance" -- what si that supposed to mean?

although this comment is not directed at me, i am still offended, one being, not everyone is in such a position that they ahve a need to examine themselves, not everyone is a sinner, i do find it offensive when people say 'WE' need to look at ourselves.

saying that WE need to check ourselevs is indirectly saying that everyone included in this 'we' is a sinner and in a problem, and/or inncorrect

and also, you don't know everyone elses situation..so one is not in a position to correct them on what they do not know

and there is a diffrence between knowing wether someone is in a abd situation personaly, and when they openly advertise their sins/blapshemy

if someone does somethign bad in the open, others have the right and the obligation to correct them, and warn others if it is soemhtign that can effect others [such as teachign msiguidence]

people don't have the right, however, to asume that everyoen is jsut as bad as they are

being humble is not about admiting to everyone else you ahve issues, but about nto talking about it all together, beacsue it is not soemthign to be said

if anythign should be said, it would be better to say 'i shoudl examine my situation' then to say 'we shoudl examine our situation' or to inform others that they shoudl examine thier situation

i know what my situation is, i don't need anyoen else tellign me to examine it

in my opinion, to say "we shoudl all examine our own situation ebfore we jduge others" is jsut a way to advertise that your trying to be humble

anyways, assalaam alaikum

01-16-2006, 04:09 PM	#13
UpperMan Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 420 Senior Member	It just sad to see people being onesided and yet don't look at their own personal stance as well, I hope everyone can keep a balanced view on others. Why does everyone asume that everone else has problems? "doesn't look at thier own personal stance" -- what si that supposed to mean? although this comment is not directed at me, i am still offended, one being, not everyone is in such a position that they ahve a need to examine themselves, not everyone is a sinner, i do find it offensive when people say 'WE' need to look at ourselves. saying that WE need to check ourselevs is indirectly saying that everyone included in this 'we' is a sinner and in a problem, and/or inncorrect and also, you don't know everyone elses situation..so one is not in a position to correct them on what they do not know and there is a diffrence between knowing wether someone is in a abd situation personaly, and when they openly advertise their sins/blapshemy if someone does somethign bad in the open, others have the right and the obligation to correct them, and warn others if it is soemhtign that can effect others [such as teachign msiguidence] people don't have the right, however, to asume that everyoen is jsut as bad as they are being humble is not about admiting to everyone else you ahve issues, but about nto talking about it all together, beacsue it is not soemthign to be said if anythign should be said, it would be better to say 'i shoudl examine my situation' then to say 'we shoudl examine our situation' or to inform others that they shoudl examine thier situation i know what my situation is, i don't need anyoen else tellign me to examine it in my opinion, to say "we shoudl all examine our own situation ebfore we jduge others" is jsut a way to advertise that your trying to be humble anyways, assalaam alaikum
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