[JesikaFlpk]

Why does everyone asume that everone else has problems?

To "error" is to be human

"doesn't look at thier own personal stance" -- what si that supposed to mean?

although this comment is not directed at me, i am still offended, one being, not everyone is in such a position that they ahve a need to examine themselves, not everyone is a sinner, i do find it offensive when people say 'WE' need to look at ourselves.

Really?not everyone is a sinner eh? People have desires that they try to overcome, personal demons man was created in a weak sense and this is why the sunnah of our Nabi came about . In order to become 'sucessful' we need to follow this particular path.

saying that WE need to check ourselevs is indirectly saying that everyone included in this 'we' is a sinner and in a problem, and/or inncorrect

and also, you don't know everyone elses situation..so one is not in a position to correct them on what they do not know

Exactly just like you donot know everyone position as well, that is why some people who use hikmah are not to be so quick on the draw cast aside everyone don't you agree since you have proof that such and such is upon misguidance and your not. As if you know that you die upon the haqq, and you have a covenent with Al-Khaliq that you're going to be sucessful in this life and in the hearafter. Correct my friend?

and there is a diffrence between knowing wether someone is in a abd situation personaly, and when they openly advertise their sins/blapshemy

if someone does somethign bad in the open, others have the right and the obligation to correct them, and warn others if it is soemhtign that can effect others [such as teachign msiguidence]

Exactly, and this is why issues should be presented to the 'more' knowledgeable individuals not towards the laymen muslim.

people don't have the right, however, to asume that everyoen is jsut as bad as they are

being humble is not about admiting to everyone else you ahve issues, but about nto talking about it all together, beacsue it is not soemthign to be said

if anythign should be said, it would be better to say 'i shoudl examine my situation' then to say 'we shoudl examine our situation' or to inform others that they shoudl examine thier situation

Just accept brother Crono, everyone has baggage that they need to deal with, to say a person doesn't have any faults it's either two things

1. a serious lying problem
2 a serious dash of hypocrisy

The choice is yours! Futhermore you can refer to my signature statement as a reminder as well brother.

i know what my situation is, i don't need anyoen else tellign me to examine it

in my opinion, to say "we shoudl all examine our own situation ebfore we jduge others" is jsut a way to advertise that your trying to be humble
anyways,

I know myself better than you know me, so therefore I try not to broadcast my shortcomings. Why not try to be humble that is better than being arrogant and being in denial that you feel like that you don't have any faults.

assalaam alaikum