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Old 05-13-2012, 12:56 AM   #26
RCQDnMp5

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I had been a muslim for 5 years.

So it wasn't like I was a beginner or didn't know the Deen.

The sister had told me before hand that it was going to be difficult because I was not from her country; and not from her tribe. Plus, me being white was really going to be a problem with her family.

Yet, she thought she could convince them to accept me.

But, in this case. Culture won out over Islam.
then thats sad brother, make dua for them, i'm still quite happy, 'coz I'm sure if such a thing happens in the future with her kids, that sister who initially agreed to marry you but couldn't due to parental pressure won't forward the tribe culture on her kids, it'll end with her parents. she is a daughter, so her parents would have wanted more safety for her than normal, but i'd be sad if her dad went back on his promise, which was not the case, so just make dua.
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