Asalam Alaikum May Allah s.w.a shower his blessings on you all. How does one stop losing his concentration/passion on deen when his has to deal with a disobedient wife? For instance due to her disobedience/selfishness he gets really upset and feels like a ton of bricks has fallen on him. He becomes really depressed which destroys his concentration in prayers, Dhikr etc... But when things go back on track with his wife so does his deen.