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A Companion asked Hadrat Aisha radhi Allah anha for advice. She said that if we please creation and in that process displease Allah subhanahu wa'tala, then Allah subhanahu wa'tala will put rebellion in the heart of creation toward you, such that the same creation we are trying to please starts hating us. She continued and said that if we displease creation but in that process please Allah subhanahu wa'tala, then Allah subhanahu wa'tala will put love in the hearts of creation so that those who may have opposed us in the past will love us and become our allies. Allah subhanahu wa'tala looks after the one who gives himself to Allah subhanahu wa'tala.

There is only pain and suffering in opposing Allah subhanahu wa'tala and attempting to please the creation, however being conceited and self righteous are also deadly sins. This is when one sees ones good actions as coming from the self and one is blind to ones own evil.