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**Tapupah** · 12-02-2010, 11:19 AM

And there are other ways for a man to be perfectly fair to his wives, so no, we're still even.

Of course deen is a part of that. If a man isn't satisfied with one wife alone and fulfills the criteria for taking another wife, it is better for him to marry and find a halaal means of satisfaction to protect his deen.

Yeah, but you were saying we're not like the sahabiyaat either so b4 you were obviously talking about our deen, not yours. (since I was comparing you guys to the sahaba)

i lost track if we're even or not..... wait, no we're not.

Well he should be satisfied. He should work hard so he could get hur al3een in jannah (

) instead of just fulfilling his desires in this dunya. But if a man can't control himself (

) and one wife isn't enough then thats up to him and his wife(which I feel sorry for). But she can still put 'no polygamy' in the contract just like the questionor asked in the first place.

12-02-2010, 11:19 AM	#24
Tapupah Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 474 Senior Member	And there are other ways for a man to be perfectly fair to his wives, so no, we're still even. Of course deen is a part of that. If a man isn't satisfied with one wife alone and fulfills the criteria for taking another wife, it is better for him to marry and find a halaal means of satisfaction to protect his deen. Yeah, but you were saying we're not like the sahabiyaat either so b4 you were obviously talking about our deen, not yours. (since I was comparing you guys to the sahaba) i lost track if we're even or not..... wait, no we're not. Well he should be satisfied. He should work hard so he could get hur al3een in jannah () instead of just fulfilling his desires in this dunya. But if a man can't control himself () and one wife isn't enough then thats up to him and his wife(which I feel sorry for). But she can still put 'no polygamy' in the contract just like the questionor asked in the first place.
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