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**Pedsshuth** · 12-02-2010, 11:34 AM

Hm, interesting discussion. I'll have to agree with br al-Mufakkir on this one.

We women, with all our jealousy and possessiveness, which YES s natural, also have to realize that a man's desires are natural too. Allah gave these to us and we have to deal with these feelings.

coincidently yesterday my husband was gone somewhere, so when one of my students asked where, the other teacher said "sotan". the student asked what it meant so I replied "second wife", to which the student exclaimed, "Astaghfirullah!"

Now this is the attitude even youngsters have now! polygyny, a sunnah, such a taboo that it receives and Astaghfirullah!

12-02-2010, 11:34 AM	#25
Pedsshuth Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 457 Senior Member	Hm, interesting discussion. I'll have to agree with br al-Mufakkir on this one. We women, with all our jealousy and possessiveness, which YES s natural, also have to realize that a man's desires are natural too. Allah gave these to us and we have to deal with these feelings. coincidently yesterday my husband was gone somewhere, so when one of my students asked where, the other teacher said "sotan". the student asked what it meant so I replied "second wife", to which the student exclaimed, "Astaghfirullah!" Now this is the attitude even youngsters have now! polygyny, a sunnah, such a taboo that it receives and Astaghfirullah!
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